I need to share this with you.
It’s a shout out to all my fellow natural hair wearing women with a secret stash of awkward black girl memories.
Issa Rae (Director, Writer, Editor, MessTalker) served up a beautifully-written piece about learning to love her hair. As I’m always looking for ways to help instill a sense of pride and emotional wellness in my daughters, I read her article as last night’s bed time story, and boy did it conjure up some healthy conversation!
Ages 10 to 14 were definitely my awkward black girl years, and I remember them clearly. Culture shock, family drama, and standing out like a sore thumb as “the weird, know-it-all, Jamaican girl with the big gap between her teeth”…yep…memories.
When was your awkward stage, and what do you remember most?
One of my beautifully awkward black girls reminded me how early this all starts, and how important it is to TALK ABOUT OUR HAIR from a space of PRIDE, and not from a place of how to HIDE it, or have it CONFORM to fit into someone else’s comfort zone.